About Me

Together…Let’s Empower You To Be In Beautiful Love Relationships That Work, Are Supportive and Are Healthy. 

  • Are you fed up struggling to find your way in relationships
  • Not sure how to communicate your needs and desires?
  • Or are repetitive patterns taking you down an emotionally pitted road leaving you feeling disappointed and insecure about your future love prospects?
  • Would you like to look forward to each day waking up next to someone you love and know that you are loved right back in the same way?

Learn how to align your thoughts and your actions from a place of self belief and self trust so you can call-in the love that is right and is worthy of you.

My “From Bottom Shelf To Top Shelf Relationships” blueprint provides the 3 distinct steps to experiencing healthy loving relationships that last.





First we dissolve and heal old wounds removing the root cause of your problems so you become free from the holds of the past and let it go.

Limiting beliefs and fears are transformed into empowering beliefs that stop the  struggle, securing you a meaningful love life.

Move from pain to pleasure.

Repetitive behaviours, patterns and habits are replaced with knowing what to do, what to say and how to say it with confidence.

Your words and actions become aligned with your heart so your truth always speaks out. 

Move from doubt to unshakeable self trust.

Declare who you want and what you want in a partnership with pristine clarity and unwavering self belief.

Know right away if a relationship is worth getting into; and once in it know how to create healthy communication to ensure  there is respect and your needs are met.

Move from disillusioned to delicious love.

WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO, AND THE DIRECTION IN WHICH YOU ARE HEADING, YOU CAN FEEL CONFIDENT and CLEAR with the steps you are taking and move forward with certainty.

My speciality is turning your pain into power

Since 2001 I have been helping transform women’s and men’s lives in healing the trauma experienced through abuse, by dissolving the root cause and the manifestation of those experiences like anxiety, depression, self sabotaging behaviours, negative beliefs creating unhealthy relationships.

By eliminating the root cause of the problems, we build a bridge, a new pathway to true authentic love that you can feel passionate and excited about every day.

My three-step “From Bottom Shelf To Top Shelf Relationship” right away permanently transforms the root cause that keeps women in endless pain and disappointment.

By providing easy steps to help get women ready to create successful love relationships they are able to come to peace with the past, find joy in new empowering love patterns; and attract authentic love without struggle or worry.

My high-level healing skills, intuition, and psychic abilities developed since my teens will show you how to share your heart and soul rather than control your loved one through unconscious self-sabotaging insecurities.

I provide tools to help determine right from the get-go if it’s worth you getting into a relationship; once in a relationship what to do in order to have healthy communication, and healthy behaviours which will ensure respect, and to make sure your needs are met. A relationship where you feel safe to show up as your true self without hesitation.

The pattern that has become your life is redesigned, to a life of feeling whole, complete and fully open to the love you dream of and wholeheartedly deserve.

     My unique ability “you know me better than I know myself” coupled with my high level healing abilities, relationship coaching, spiritual teaching and intuitive skills speeds up my clients progress and transformation.

So Who Am I? 

I am the ‘Healthy Love Relationship Expert’ helping ambitious, professional women have strong, lasting healthy relationships which support their needs and desires and who are determined not to get into another bad relationship.

Early on, I knew there was something different about me. I was able to make strong connections to anyone I just met, the kind of connection that can only be built through a lifetime of friendship and trust. It is a superpower developed over a spiritual lifetime of spiritual development, learning, healing and psychic development (40 + years), is my ability to ‘see’ and permanently transform the root cause of the blocks which deny women access to the love they seek. Seeing the patterns also enables me to help build connections between people more easily.

My specialty is helping women who have experienced abuse.

I am a soul healer, psychic, teacher, hypnotherapist and spiritual mentor. My knowledge and skills have been developed over a lifetime of spiritual development, research and spiritual practice.

From working with so many wonderful individuals and couples along with my own awakening, I have been shown from the soul’s perspective, that the most important relationship we can have is the one with our self.

This is sadly is the one most ignored. But when we reconnect, allowing our soul to ‘rethread’ itself throughout our entire being, we experience our self in a brand new way where love is now our guide; leading us to passionate, joyful expressions of love where we can experience our relationships at their most honest and open creating healthy love relationships that last.

I am intimately familiar

I am intimately familiar with your struggles of navigating interpersonal relationships and feeling safe to express our concerns, our emotions and fears without hesitation.

That fear of rejection and abandonment which moulded my teens and early 20’s led me into a relationship I knew wasn’t right. I was made acutely aware of this when I heard my soul shouting at me “DON’T do it”, when the ring was put on my finger.

But I dismissed the warning. All the family sitting there and my dad having spent good money hiring an old Rolls Royce to drive me to the church. I will never forget that moment.  I had a nasty belief that I mustn’t upset anyone. Heard that one before?

During the four years of my first marriage I got swallowed up in the constant emotional upheaval from the continual ups and downs, never knowing what was going to happen next. He was away for most of the first two years and on the occasions he came home he preferred to spend his time in the company of his drinking mates. That really helped my sense of being worthy of love..I don’t think!

I was so blinded by what I thought was true love that I didn’t see that he was a addicted drinker.

Those few short years however, were enough to make me feel shattered in pieces.  I felt very fragmented like bits of me had splintered off. I had  completely lost sight of me  ending up emotionally dependant on this man through my deep fear of abandonment and rejection.

With my soul’s guidance and healing I found the courage to wake up from the coma I was living in, pack up and leave and get divorced a month before my son was born.

The Gift I have Been Given Along My Journey

The gift that feel is most precious that my soul has gifted me and which underpins all the work that I do and which can make it easy for us to find our way back to our authentic self is this.

We are continually building road maps within ourselves, and no matter how hard life might feel, from the shocks we experience, which both fragment our sense of self from resultant feelings like loss, loneliness, despair and desperation,  there is always a way back.

We are continually building road maps within ourselves, so no matter how far we stray from our true self, no matter how dark it gets, we always have a map we can follow to get back.

I was shown we will often take ourselves down to depths of despair, or emptiness in order to find our true self.

We don’t need to though, by the way, it’s just something we choose to so we can ‘pull’ up all the parts of our self that have become lost and disconnected, regardless of how deep they have gone into hiding in order to feel safe.

This is so we might reconnect and realign with soul, our true self to once gain feel whole and complete and powerful.

How Did I get Here?

I realised when I was in my early teens, actually when I reached 12 that I had real relationship issues brought about by a constant deep sense of loneliness and rejection. I found myself acting like a limpet attaching to anyone who showed me some interest.  I grew up in what I felt at the time was a really close family, well that was up to when I reached 12 and then it all fell downhill. Loneliness haunted me for 7 years.

I realised just how anxious I used to be about making friends and longing for people like me. It drove me nuts and and was very exhausting. Always giving my energy away and leaving me feeling emptier than before.  I was on constant lookout for approval.

Relationships always dogged me and healthy relationships especially avoided me like the plague, or so I thought. The only time I felt good being me was in sport where I excelled and felt confident. Elsewhere though in my life …nope…not even a hint. Consequently interpersonal relationships in which I maintained any semblance of identity or self esteem without judgement or blame has been the biggest growth area in my life. I now know this is something my soul wanted to learn and what a ride it has been. Read more on the darkest periods of my life and my greatest spiritual learning.

Please know:-

  • I only work with women who are fully committed to change and who are looking for a ‘spiritual out of the box’ solution
  • I believe it making things simple  for you to integrate and assimilate the incredible changes into your daily life with ease
  • I will provide guidance and tools that you can can use to implement into your new relationship with love
  • Know that this is not a quick fix solution. It is permanent and lasting change opening the door to a whole new way of loving

If you feel I can offer you the solution that you seek please contact me here.

I can’t wait to meet you.

With love

My Mission
To transform the patterns, fears and beliefs from trauma and abuse, to allow women to form love relationships where they feel safe to communicate their needs, desires, wants and insecurities  without hesitation and with complete confidence: so they can enjoy limitless, passionate love relationships.
My Philosophy
At the core of our being is the most sublime part of ourselves, our soul, who opens our mind to a limitless life of love, joy, abundance and freedom to be the true expression of who are without condition.
  • Theta
    • DNA Basic and Advanced
    • Wealth
    • Anatomy
  • Hypnotherapy
    • Diploma and Advanced
  • Crystal Healing
    • Basic and Advanced
    • Time Line Therapy
    • Past Life Regression
  • Reiki Master
  • Seichem Master
  • Egyptian Master
  • Spiritual Healing

Psychic Development Circle /Mediumship

About Sandy Hounsell

My speciality is turning your pain into power...

Since 2001 I have been helping transform women’s and men’s lives in healing the trauma experienced through abuse, by dissolving the root cause and the manifestation of those experiences like unhealthy relationships, anxiety, depression, self sabotaging behaviours, repetitive patterns that has disconnected you, from the Real You...Read More >

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